How to Tell if Someone is in Love With You: You Will Know

If someone is in love with you, you will know, as all the signs are there. Maybe you know how to read the signs, but maybe not, depending upon how aware and astute you are. It is usually self-evident.

The article entitled "15 signs of falling in love", suggests that

“Many individuals eagerly anticipate falling in love, because they have never experienced love or don't really know what being in love feels like. These romantic novices know that love is a euphoric emotion that they want to experience firsthand, and they may even go out of their way to hunt love out.”

Someone who is in love with you may have the same kind of experience you do. How to tell if someone is in love with you can vary from person to person, but there are ways you can tell. Consider the following suggestions. 

Practice the art of observation:

Your perceptual acuity will reveal the truth to you. For example, perhaps your young man behaves like a peacock flaunting its feathers, while skirting around and in front of you as his potential lover. Your observation skills suggest that he is sending you a message by the way he acts. Either he is in love or his hormones are running rampant….maybe both?

Rely on your own instinct:

Your first instinct may be that of awareness of some chemistry between the two of you. Maybe he has fallen in love with you, but maybe you do not sense that chemistry, at least not yet. Tread cautiously, but allow for the possibility. Falling in love can be fun, but a frightening experience if it is not true love.

Listen and observe:

What a person says, verbally and non-verbally, reveals the truth about whether or not he or she is falling in love with you. Be alert to the reality that this person may not be able to verbalize his or her feelings for you, but may express them in other ways like artwork or offering you tokens or gifts. The expression on his or her face can speak louder than words, as can the twinkle in his or her eyes. Is he or she stuttering or stammering? Maybe he or she is blushing or seems nervous.

Be aware of your own responses:

You may be giving clues  to a potential lover by the way that you respond or react to the other person’s language. Note how he or she responds to your words or gestures. Are they encouraging him or her, or are they suggesting rejection?

You are or should be in control of a potential, love relationship. Where it goes depends upon you and the way you want the relationship to go.