If success is measured only in
terms of dollars and cents, then how successful can one suggest that humankind
is now, or has been in the past? How successful will humankind become in the
future?
Fortunately, financial success
is only one kind of success. It does not necessarily guarantee peace of mind
and may not be the most rewarding kind of success.
Dictionary.com suggests that financial success is only one of several measurements
for success including “the favorable or prosperous termination of attempts or
endeavors” and “the attainment of wealth, position, honors, or the like”.
Success has other connotations, for example, in terms of “performance or
achievement” where it depicts a person or a thing. An obsolete meaning for the
word success is that of “outcome”.
At times, there may be too much
emphasis placed on financial success. For example, there are parents who only
see their child as being successful when he or she earns money. Meanwhile,
another child gets excellent grades at school, and his or her parents see their
child as successful, academically. The first child is obligated to leave school
early in order to support his or her parents. The child with good grades stays
in school and in time, becomes a doctor.
Which one is successful? One
might suggest that both are, but in different ways and in accordance with the
ways their parents determine success.
Success measured in terms of
cultural and value systems, can differ from one cultural and value system to
another. For example, one family takes care of both sets of their parents and
grandparents by sacrificing financially, in order to do so. A second family walks
away from both sets of their parents and grandparents, becoming financially
independent. A third family seeks financial support from both of their sets of
parents and grandparents. Which is the most successful? This depends at least
in part upon their cultural and value systems.
Thus, measuring success come about in
different ways. Insistence upon financial success alone may not always be the most
appropriate.
Success is determined in terms
of goal orientation, as well. For example, when a goal is positive,
constructive and proactive in nature, success is highly likely. There are no
guarantees of success, but when something is negative, destructive and
non-active or active in a negative direction, its success is unlikely. If a
goal is negative, then success is the achievement of that goal, but it may be
pseudo-success in terms of a larger picture.
Success regarding money belongs
in the realm of finances, but since money is not everything or the focus of
everything, other ways of measuring success are often more
appropriate.

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